help with infrared!

hey guys! i just bought an 6600 and i want to transfer a file from my pc to my phones memory card cause its 8mb and i cant put it on the phone memory! with my infrared, if i use my infrared's software whatever i try to send to my phone goes to the phone memory.. i also tried to use nokia pc suite but i need help with it! cause i wanna put the file on the menu, and i cant because nokia pc suite gives me some folders of my memory card but they're all in the gallery.. can someone help me put that file on the memory card and on the menu? :(

P.S: sorry for my bad english!
oh, and if you didnt understood anything just ask and ill try to explain you better..