PC suite won't connect

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hi to everyone as this is my first post!

been looking round the forums and found some interesting and very helpful stuff so thank you all for that

but,,,,,,,,,,,,, :? i got a problem about PC suite with my 6600. I start the program and it says 'this is the first time you have used the program, blah blah blah, please connect the phone and click ok blah blah'
i have got the bluetooth dongle in and set up, and phone bluetoof on.

clicked OK.

all i have now is a grey screen with all the File, view help menus etc along the top.

Help is saying click Control panel on the toolbar in the PC suite program but i haven't even got a toolbar!

I can use the software that came with the dongle fine but i want PC suite working

please help!